Five Steps to Get Over a Book Character that you Love

Are you in love with a book character? Can'r get him/her out of your mind? Fangirls, we've all been there. There was once a time that I was in love with Jasper Hale. But I am trying to get over him now, because right now, I'm falling for Harry Potter. Save me! Anyways, here are five steps to get over the book character you love!

1: Accepting: Step one of getting over this book character is accepting the harsh bitter truth- they do not exist. If it helps you to believe that they do exist, by all means, believe it. But if you really want to get over them, accept that they do not exist. Stop referring to them as if they were a real person, try not to think of them as though they were right there in front of you. Really accept the truth.

2: Rebound: Keep your mind off of them. I know that every waking minute, my heart ached because I was sad. I became depressed because I was so in love with Jasper. Please, don't let this happen to you. I can barely listen to my favorite songs as it is, because most of them remind me of Jasper. Instead, you need to stop reading that book series for a while. Read another book, or go out and find someone that really exists to crush on. Try not to think about the character.

3: Talk: It helped me to talk to others about my strange love for a book character. My friends did not understand because they didn't read as much as I do, but my family did. Talk to someone you know will understand you so that you can get your feelings out of the way and accept the truth.

4: Don't go Back: Once you have completed these three steps, do not go back. Do not read the book series until you are sure that you can say that character's name without pain. Treat it like a real break up, and try to move on. For me, I just found a TV show that numbs that pain. I binge watched Two Broke Girls until I was bore. But then I started to watch the Boondocks, and I began to fall in love with Huey Freeman. The point is, find your anchor and stay chained to them.

5: Relax: You can relax now, because the war is over! If you have followed each of these steps you are now cured! You can do what you wish now, whether it's reading or just meditating. You may relax.

I hope that this helped you as much as it did me, if you have any questions, please email me or find me on Wattpad.

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