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So You're In Love? Do's and Don'ts of love.

  • Anaiah Barnes
  • Mar 28, 2017
  • 2 min read

I'll tell you what you don't do: You don't just go up to them and say so, you have to plan this- observe.

The Do's:

1. DO become their friend first: If you don't become their friend, then you can end up with a real ***hole for a boyfriend/girlfriend. Or worse, they may not like you because they know what's on the surface not who you are inside.

2. DO be yourself: Nobody likes a faker and if that's who you intend to be you might as well stop reading my advice right now. However, if you want them to love you for who you are, I'd be happy to tell you to just be yourself. Now what does that mean? Being yourself means that you still have your manners, but if he/she asked you to voice your opinion on a subject you would answer according to what you think and not what you think they would like to hear because in the end you're going to look like an idiot.

3. DO accept the 'no': I understand that you may like that person a lot, but if they're dating someone or just straight out doesn't like you than you need to find someone else to love, sometimes you can continue being their friend but if you or they are too uncomfortable to do that say bye-bye to your love!

4. DO your personal hygiene: No man/woman wants a stinky friend/boyfriend/girlfriend. So this means shower everyday, brush your teeth everyday, and make sure that you wear fresh clothes.

The Don'ts:

1. DON'T show up late for a date: This golden rule applies to both men and women, no one likes to spend half of their evening waiting for you all because you wanted to be fashionably late! Forget it, because I know you don't want to be waiting in a restaurant looking like you just lost your date. On top of that, you would owe a huge apology not just to your date, but to the entire staff because guess what? No one has the time to keep coming back to your table asking your lonely date if they want something to drink and when they want it make sure you pay a big tip too.

2. DON'T move too fast: Take the relationship slow, this means don't ask to move in after the first date. And this also means, that you don't say 'I love you' too early that tends to scare both men and women off okay?

3. DON'T Talk too much about yourself: Look I get it, you've only got a few minutes to make a good impression so do it quickly. Be sure to tell your date what your looking for in a relationship, why, and what you want to do. Just don't end up launching into a full blown conversation about yourself, because you will look long-winded and BORING!

That's my advice for you.


 
 
 

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